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Dating is all about fun.
Yes! But it's not all that easy. I mean you wouldn't want to set off on the wrong foot with someone you've just met. You wish to make the right moves and not look like a fool. If you get it all right, your first date could very well end up being the love of your life.
Just like the art of painting or skiing or even dancing, dating is an art that needs to be mastered. Since you're not meeting face to face, it's not your outfit that would impress your date, but your conversational skills, while you chat online. To be a success on online dating, you have to master your conversational skills. You've got to be confident, intelligent and witty. Here are a few tips that you can employ with your online dating.
1. Always say what you think: Express your views and opinions freely and in a positive way. Be honest. Don't put on pretence or say something others would want you to say. Just be yourself. In doing this, you will receive the kind of responses that you're looking for and you'll be respected and admired by those you encounter.
2. Try to understand your date well: Do not assume things. Probe for more details or ask specific questions, so as to clear any doubts or misunderstandings.
3. Be polite and respectful: Remember even though the person may not be seeing you, he/she could read through you, simply by your words.
4. Remember that conversation is a two way process: Don't do all the talking. This is unethical and inconsiderate. Give your partner a chance to talk and don't interrupt, while he/she talks. If you want to clarify something, be patient and wait till he/she has finished speaking.
